Sex Therapy in El Paso

Let’s Talk About What’s Not Being Said Between the Sheets (Or Anywhere Else)

Sex and intimacy aren’t always easy to talk about, especially when things feel off. Maybe it used to feel effortless, but now it’s just… awkward. Maybe there’s no physical connection, and you’re unsure how to bring it up without starting a fight. If sex was never something that felt comfortable in the first place, and you’re ready to figure out why.

If that’s where you are, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken, either.

At Sagebrush Counseling, I offer virtual sex therapy for individuals and couples in El Paso and across Texas. It’s a judgment-free space to untangle what’s going on behind closed doors (or the silence around it) and figure out how to feel more connected again—physically, emotionally, and all the in-between stuff.

How Intimacy or Sex Therapy Can Help Your Relationship

Sex is supposed to feel good, right? But sometimes it feels like pressure. Or distance. Or rejection. Or like you’re just… going through the motions.

I work with people who are dealing with things like:

• Feeling out of sync with your partner (and not knowing how to talk about it)

• Mismatched desire that leads to tension or hurt feelings

• Avoidance, awkwardness, or disconnect around sex

• Carrying shame or guilt that makes intimacy hard to enjoy

• Losing the emotional spark that used to be there

No matter what’s going on, we can talk about it here. No shame. No awkwardness. Just real conversation, with someone who gets that this part of life can feel complicated.

What Sex Therapy Looks Like (Spoiler: It’s Not Weird)

Sex therapy doesn’t mean talking about sex nonstop—or doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. It’s just therapy, with a focus on intimacy and connection.

Here’s what we might explore together:

• How to talk about sex without it turning into a fight

• What’s really behind the tension, the silence, or the mismatched needs

• How your past might be showing up in the present

• Ways to reconnect emotionally and physically—without pressure

• How to rebuild intimacy on your own terms

We go at your pace. We focus on what matters to you. And we create a space where you don’t have to pretend everything’s fine if it’s not.

Therapy That Fits Into Real Life (Yes, Even Yours)

Let’s be honest—driving across El Paso for therapy probably isn’t high on your list. That’s why all sessions are virtual.

No traffic. No waiting room. No scrambling to get there on time. Just you, your partner (if applicable), a quiet spot, and someone who’s here to help.

People love virtual therapy because:

• It’s easy to fit into your day

• You get to show up in sweatpants or slippers

• You can talk about hard things from the comfort of your own space

• It actually works—yep, even over a screen

Whether you’re in El Paso proper, Horizon City, or anywhere else in Texas, support is just a click away.

Who I Work With (Couples and Individuals in Texas)

This space is open to:

• Couples who feel more like roommates than romantic partners

• People who want more intimacy but aren’t sure how to get there

• Anyone unpacking religious shame, sexual confusion, or past messages about sex

• Neurodivergent folks and couples who want to build intimacy that works for them

• People trying to heal after betrayal or disconnection

You don’t need a “label” or a list of problems to start. You just have to be curious about what’s possible when things feel safe, respectful, and more aligned with what you want.

Ready to Start? No Pressure—Just Support

If you’ve been searching for sex therapy in El Paso, this might be your sign to reach out. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to take the next step.

📧 Email: contact@sagebrushcounseling.com
📱 Call or text: (512) 790-0019
💻 All sessions are virtual, private, and available to anyone in Texas

Let’s make space for connection that actually feels like you again.